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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008
- Faculty:
- Sue Johnson, EdD
- Duration:
- 2:39:21
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2008
- Short Description:
- This workshop will outline the use of attachment theory in the assessment of Relationship problems, setting of treatment goals, creation of change events and moment to moment interventions in emotionally focused couples therapy.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Intimacy | Attachment | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:08:28
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2008
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores a developmental psychobiological approach to intimacy, showing how the brain’s automatic responses, attachment styles, and arousal levels shape relationship dynamics. It covers how subtle cues like eye contact and microexpressions reveal emotional states, and why co-regulation is key to managing conflict. The approach supports using longer, more frequent sessions to help couples stay connected and repair quickly when things go wrong.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Addiction | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Narcissism | Psychology | Personality Disorders | Avoidant | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Somatic Psychology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:24:28
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2008
- Short Description:
- Avoidant attachment can resemble disorders of the self, such as narcissistic or schizoid presentations, where partners rely heavily on auto-regulation and disengage from mutual emotional attunement. This workshop examines how such dynamics play out in romantic relationships, offering practical strategies—like proximity-based interventions and structured dyadic exercises—to support co-regulation and foster secure relating.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Addiction Attachment Narcissistic Personality Disorder Personality Disorders Psychology Avoidant Experiential Learning Reframing Strategic Therapy Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Utilization Arousal Regulation Attachment Styles Boundaries Co-Regulation Couples Conflict Dyadic Repair Emotional Avoidance Emotional Dysregulation Eye Contact Therapeutic Interviewing

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Developmental Therapy Model | Differentiation | Intimacy | Behavioral Psychology | Developmental Psychology | Neuroscience | Therapist Development | Trauma Studies
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:19:52
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- Learn how attachment, differentiation, and neuroscience intersect to help couples overcome communication barriers, manage conflicts, and grow together. Discover practical techniques like the "ouch" method to de-escalate tensions and support partners in developing deeper understanding and authentic connection.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Attachment Couples Therapy Developmental Therapy Model Differentiation Intimacy Conflict Resolution Emotional Growth Experiential Learning Grief Grief Processing Individual Therapy Phenomenological Approach Self-Discovery Therapeutic Alliance Validation Emotional Contagion Trust Issues Relationship Evolution

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Avoidant | Addiction | Attachment | Behavioral Therapy | Family Systems | Neuroscience | Psychoanalysis | Psychotherapy | Trauma Studies
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:23:01
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- A comprehensive workshop exploring intimacy avoidance in couples, revealing therapeutic strategies to help partners overcome fear of vulnerability, challenge core beliefs, and develop deeper emotional connections through authentic communication and courageous self-exposure.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Avoidant Couples Therapy Intimacy Addiction Anxiety Attunement Conflict Avoidance Differentiation Domestic Violence Emotional Growth Experiential Therapy Hostile Couples Observation Pattern Interruption Phenomenological Approach Rapport Self-Discovery Symbiotic Relationships Therapeutic Alliance Trauma Validation Vulnerability Intimacy Avoidance Emotional Withdrawal Emotional Tension Substance Use

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- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Attachment | Clinical Psychology | Sex and Sexuality | Sociology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Marty Klein, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT | Jette Simon
- Duration:
- 56:56
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2011
- Short Description:
- A thought-provoking exploration of infidelity, examining its psychological roots, cultural contexts, and potential for relationship transformation. Experts delve into the complex motivations behind affairs, challenging traditional views on monogamy and offering nuanced insights into healing and growth after betrayal.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Workshops | Developmental Therapy Model | Differentiation | Behavioral Psychology | Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) | Developmental Psychology | Therapy Practice
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:12:19
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2011
- Short Description:
- A workshop exploring couples therapy through developmental, attachment, and neuroscience lenses. Learn to identify communication barriers, understand relationship stages, and help couples develop effective coping strategies. Includes practical tools, video demonstrations, and interactive exercises to enhance therapeutic interventions.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Differentiation | Developmental Psychology | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Peter Pearson, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 40:20
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2012
- Short Description:
- A dynamic exploration of couples therapy that delves into neuroscience, attachment, and relationship growth. Bader and Pearson examine how brain survival instincts can impede connection. They introduce differentiation techniques and demonstrate how couples can overcome communication barriers through understanding, empathy, and collaborative teamwork. Engaging video demonstrations and a compelling case study illuminate the complex dynamics of intimate relationships.
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- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Keynotes | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:47
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Based on Perel’s Mating in Captivity, this bold take on intimacy and sex grapples with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. We will tackle eroticism as a quality of aliveness and vitality in relationships extending far beyond mere sexuality and consider how the need for secure attachment and closeness can co-exist with the quest for individuality and freedom.
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- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Couples Therapy | Topical Panels | Attachment | Clinical Psychology | Evolutionary Psychology | Relationships | Sex and Sexuality | Sociology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Helen E. Fisher, PhD | John Gottman, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:04
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Experts explore the intricate landscape of infidelity, examining its psychological, evolutionary, and cultural dimensions. Top relationship researchers reveal groundbreaking insights into why affairs happen, their impact on couples, and the complex therapeutic approaches needed to heal relationships. A compelling examination of trust, betrayal, and human connection in modern partnerships.
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Topical Panels | Attunement | Therapist Development
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Rick Hanson, PhD | Harville Hendrix, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Scott R. Woolley, PhD
- Duration:
- 59:38
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- This panel explores how attachment theory and neuroscience shape couples therapy. It emphasizes the importance of secure bonds, therapist presence, emotional attunement, and brain-based insights into relational dynamics. Panelists examine how early attachment, brain function, and cultural context influence therapeutic effectiveness.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) | Workshops | Couples Therapy | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- Scott R. Woolley, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:53:34
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2012
- Short Description:
- Attachment injuries are a specific type of betrayal in romantic relationships that traumatize and fundamentally change basic relation-ship assumptions for injured partners and often create impasses in therapy. This workshop will present seven processes to restore love after an attachment injury and demonstrate elements of the healing process using video.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Attunement | Conflict | Gottman Method
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- John Gottman, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:47:47
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 29, 2012
- Short Description:
- The Atone-Attune-Attach model of couples’ therapy for healing from a revealed extra-relationship affair, with secrecy deception is described. Each of the three phases has 4 objectives. The roles of conflict avoidance and self-disclosure avoidance are discussed, as well as the Gottman-Rapoport conflict blueprint. To deal with attachment injuries and regrettable past incidents, the Gottman Recovery Kit is described. The Gottman-Rusbult-Glass cascade forms the basic theory for this therapy. The roles of cherishing and gratitude versus trashing and betrayal are discussed, as well as the theory of attunement and trust, and CL-ALT and betrayal.
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Trauma | Addiction | Family Therapy | Workshops | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013
- Faculty:
- Stephanie Brown, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:00:59
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- CC13 Workshop 02 - When Society Loses Control: Attachment, Trauma, and a Developmental Process of Couple and Family Addiction and Recovery - Stephanie Brown, PHD What is the process of “normal” couple and family recovery in the context of cultural loss of control? We will define addiction as a traumatic disorder of attachment for individuals and the family. We will review the Family Recovery Research Project, with an emphasis on the couple, outlining the stages of active addiction and recovery and the key themes and tasks of development that arise, along with the implications for couples therapy at every stage when the culture remains chronically stressed, chaotic and FAST.
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- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Attachment | Keynotes | Anxiety | Intimacy | Sex and Sexuality | Love
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 57:21
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- This bold take on intimacy and sex grapples with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our need for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. We will tackle eroticism as a quality of vitality in relationships extending far beyond mere sexuality and show how reconciling these two competing needs is at the heart of sustaining desire over time. We will address paradoxes of desire and how social forces inhibit erotic expression; attachment history and the erotic blueprint.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Cultural and Social Contexts
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Harville Hendrix, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Marion Solomon, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:01:42
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 24, 2015
- Short Description:
- This panel explores how therapists can strengthen connection by addressing the subtle fears that undercut safety and intimacy. Panelists reflect on cultural shifts—like the women’s movement and the rise of conscious partnerships—and call for a more proactive clinical stance: integrating early relationship education, premarital work, and public advocacy to help shape a relationally healthier culture.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Attachment | Neurobiology | Therapist Development | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:54:28
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 24, 2015
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores couple therapy with highly disorganized partners, where therapeutic structure and stance are essential. Using attachment, regulation, and neurobiological models, it addresses trauma-related dysregulation. Clinical examples illustrate how facial cues, pacing, and therapist attunement support emotional regulation and relational repair in the face of volatility.
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- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Relationships | Attachment | Differentiation | Gender Dynamics | Grandiosity | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 34:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 14, 2016
- Short Description:
- This workshop presents an intensive, truth-driven approach to saving marriages through Relational Life Therapy. It introduces the concept of psychological patriarchy—structured around the great divide, the dance of contempt, and core collusion—and outlines how therapists can disrupt these dynamics by fostering accountability, intimacy, and new relational skills. The focus is on deep repair, often in couples who have failed in previous therapies, with an emphasis on competence rather than gender.
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- Topic Areas:
- Neuroscience | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Gender Dynamics | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Pat Love, EdD | Helen E. Fisher, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 01:01:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This panel bridges neuroscience and relational theory, examining how personality, hormones, and brain systems shape intimacy. Fisher presents neurobiological personality types; Tatkin underscores the value of scheduling sex to sustain closeness; and Love explores hormonal influences on gendered relationship challenges. The group reflects on dopamine’s role in love and considers how modern courtship trends may support lasting bonds.
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- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Developmental Therapy Model | Multicultural | Therapeutic Model | Emotional Regulation
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT | Terry Real, LICSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 01:07:58
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 14, 2016
- Short Description:
- This panel examines the nuanced role of differentiation in couples therapy. Speakers address the ambivalence partners often feel toward change, the need for resilience, and the importance of setting clear boundaries. Topics include "fierce intimacy," therapist dedication, substance abuse, and the delicate balance between attachment and individuality. The discussion offers practical insights into fostering growth while navigating emotional tension in relationships.
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016
- Faculty:
- Diane Poole Heller, PhD | Rick Miller, MSW | Scott R. Woolley, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 53:55
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- CC16 Topical Panel 03 - Attachment - Rick Miller, LICSW, Diane Heller, Scott Woolley, PhD Panel on Attachment
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Tags: Attachment Couples Therapy
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Attachment | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 02:10:07
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This session explores deception in couples therapy through a psychobiological lens, integrating attachment, arousal regulation, and neuroscience. Tatkin highlights the limits of conscious awareness in relational conflict and the role of implicit memory and nonverbal cues in uncovering hidden agendas. Using tools like digital video analysis, cross-questioning, and presumptive statements, therapists are guided to promote secure functioning and foster repair following betrayal.
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- Topic Areas:
- Neuroscience | Attachment | Workshops | Experiential Therapy | Mindfulness | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016
- Faculty:
- Rob Fisher, MFT
- Duration:
- 01:54:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- Now that you understand the neuropsychology of attachment, how are you going to use it in a session where one partner is yelling at the other for abandoning him/her who is in turn trying to take refuge under the coach? Learn how to put theory into practice using an experiential approach to explore old neural circuitry around attachment and build new pathways. We will be using the present moment and mindfulness integrated into therapy to slow things down and rewire the brain.
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- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Attachment | Workshops | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 01:57:43
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- This workshop on attachment and Relational Life Therapy examines the dynamics between pursuers and distancers, focusing on vulnerability, self-disclosure, and boundary issues. Participants learn to use the relational grid to assess client positioning, and explore tailored strategies for love avoidance rooted in avoidance or enmeshment. The session also highlights leverage in therapy, the impact of early family roles like the “lost child,” and upcoming RLT training opportunities, including collaboration with Esther Perel.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) | Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016
- Faculty:
- Scott R. Woolley, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 01:09:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- Affairs can have a devastating impact on couple relationships. Emotionally Focused Therapy provides a powerful way to intervene when there has been an affair. This workshop provides a typology of different types of affairs and treatment strategies for each type. Using video and case demonstration, participants will learn how to identify, manage, and bring healing and safety to couple relationships when there has been an affair.
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