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Conversation Hours |  Couples Therapy |  Marriage |  Cognitive Behavior Therapy (CBT) |  Conflict |  Therapy Practice |  Trauma
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2005
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD
Duration:
41:23
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Mar 04, 2005
Short Description:
A comprehensive exploration of working with difficult couples through a developmental model, focusing on differentiation, communication techniques, and strategic therapeutic interventions. Learn how to help couples identify destructive patterns, address hidden vulnerabilities, and develop more effective relationship skills through structured, goal-oriented therapy.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  IMAGO |  Relationships |  Conflict
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Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2007
Faculty:
Harville Hendrix, PhD
Duration:
2:05:47
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 29, 2007
Short Description:
Inevitable conflict, the second stage of all committed relationships, is growth "trying to happen." This session will address core issues most couples face, working with difficult couples, how to transform destructive conflict into creative tension through the dialogue process and how to discern when a couple can or cannot be helped. Participants will be introduced to a therapy process that transforms conflict into connection and facilitates couples being healers for each other.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Assessment |  Couples Therapy |  Conflict |  Sex and Sexuality
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Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2008
Faculty:
Otto Kernberg, MD
Duration:
2:27:19
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 25, 2008
Short Description:
This workshop will explore the assessment of the functioning of couples in their sexual life, their daily interactions, and their individual and jointly arrived at value systems. The techniques of this assessment, the combination of couples’ and individual partners’ interviews will be followed by an overview of alternative therapeutic strategies.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Conflict |  Couples Therapy |  Trauma
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Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2008
Faculty:
Peter Pearson, PhD
Duration:
2:19:30
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Original Program Date:
Apr 27, 2008
Short Description:
High conflict and chronically distresses add to each others’ trauma while triggering historical trauma. Reducing, calming or eliminating the emotional triggers is an essential part of changing their negative ingrained patterns. See a live demonstration and/or experience a process to bring about immediate relief of painful memories (and sometimes) not even having to talk about them.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Conflict |  Relationships
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Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2009
Faculty:
Terry Real, LICSW
Duration:
1:52:50
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
May 01, 2009
Short Description:
The reason why most couples' characteristic fights never get resolved is because in our most heated moments, we stop fighting with each other. Core negative images (CNIs) start fighting and the two real partners get lost. This workshop teaches participants how to help partners identify, make explicit, accept, and ultimately work with one another's core negative images. As partners are taught to utilize each other's CNIs, rather than fight them, all sorts of creative and deliberating possibilities emerge.
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Topic Areas:
Keynotes |  Couples Therapy |  Dreamwork |  Gottman Method |  Conflict
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2011
Faculty:
Julie Gottman, PhD
Duration:
39:44
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 03, 2011
Short Description:
Gridlocked perpetual conflicts often destroy relationships. They repeatedly surface, causing partners endless pain, fear, even trauma. Yet every couple faces them. In this address, Dr. Julie Gottman describes a dyadic therapy method that uncloaks the dreams, history and fears beneath partners’ issues while fostering greater compassion and connection in the couple. An edited film will be shown to demonstrate this intervention.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Conflict |  Couples Therapy |  Pain and Healing |  Relationships
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2011
Faculty:
Julie Gottman, PhD
Duration:
1:38:30
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 02, 2011
Short Description:
Couples’ conflicts that hurt and go unprocessed often lead to chasms of emotional distance. This workshop explains and demonstrates with film how a couple can learn to process their own battles and move from resentment to understanding, accountability, and repair. The Gottman “Recovery Kit” will be explained and given to each participant.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Intimacy |  Sex and Sexuality |  Conflict
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2012
Faculty:
Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1:54:46
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 27, 2012
Short Description:
In this workshop, we will look at fantasy as an ingenious way our creative mind overcomes all sorts of relational and intra psychic conflicts around desire and intimacy. Therapists can help clients develop a view of fantasy as a narrative that creates a safe space to experience the pleasure that can invigorate their loving relation-ships. They will decipher the meaning of sexual fantasies, approaching them more as dreams or complex symbolic structures than as literal narratives of secret intentions.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Affairs |  Couples Therapy |  Attachment |  Attunement |  Conflict |  Gottman Method
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2012
Faculty:
John Gottman, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1:47:47
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 29, 2012
Short Description:
The Atone-Attune-Attach model of couples’ therapy for healing from a revealed extra-relationship affair, with secrecy deception is described. Each of the three phases has 4 objectives. The roles of conflict avoidance and self-disclosure avoidance are discussed, as well as the Gottman-Rapoport conflict blueprint. To deal with attachment injuries and regrettable past incidents, the Gottman Recovery Kit is described. The Gottman-Rusbult-Glass cascade forms the basic theory for this therapy. The roles of cherishing and gratitude versus trashing and betrayal are discussed, as well as the theory of attunement and trust, and CL-ALT and betrayal.
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Topic Areas:
Keynotes |  Marriage |  Conflict |  Couples Therapy |  Relationships
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2013
Faculty:
Harriet Lerner, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
56:57
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 20, 2013
Short Description:
Lerner will describe the key aspects of having a clear and courageous voice with a difficult partner when a relationship is stuck in silence, fighting, distance, and blame.
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Keynotes |  Conflict |  Relationships
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2013
Faculty:
Bill O'Hanlon, MS
Duration:
38:30
Format:
Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 21, 2013
Short Description:
Too little acknowledgment will lead to alienation of one of both partners in couples therapy, but too much acknowledgment without a compelling invitation to move on from conflict, blame and the past to new possibilities won’t work either. Learn how to maintain that delicate balance and let the couple teach you when to use which method.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Pain and Healing |  Couples Therapy |  Sex and Sexuality |  Conflict |  Infidelity |  Intimacy
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2013
Faculty:
Marty Klein, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
2:04:57
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Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 21, 2013
Short Description:
Couples therapy typically pathologizes porn use while legitimizing the grievances of the user’s partner. While this approach may seem logical, it rarely increases sexual/relationship satisfaction. How do we hold both partners while they struggle to define their behavior, contract, and emotions? This talk examines a different approach to intrapsychic conflict and power struggles over porn use. We’ll explore underlying rela-tional issues, including: Is conflict about pornography a way to avoid confronting defi-cits in the sexual (or non-sexual) relationship? Are one or both partners acting out body image issues? Is porn use infidelity?
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Workshops |  Love |  Communication |  Conflict |  Relationships
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2015
Faculty:
Bill O'Hanlon, MS
Duration:
1:36:23
Format:
Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 26, 2015
Short Description:
Couples, because they come from different background and have different understandings, often use the same words to mean different things, leading to unnecessary conflict. This workshop will provide a simple, but powerful method to quickly resolve couples conflicts using action talk.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Developmental Therapy Model |  Attachment |  Conflict |  Differentiation |  Treatment Planning |  Developmental Psychology |  Relationships
Bundle(s):
CC19 Main Conference Video Bundle | CC19 Individual Selections
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2019 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1:20:29
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 12, 2019
Short Description:
Join Ellyn Bader as she provides a solid introduction to The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. This model enables you to make a targeted assessment of what’s wrong and then select stage-specific interventions based on the developmental capacities your clients are lacking. Learn to move your clients from hurt, bitterness and outrage to collaboration, openness and increased accountability. Ellyn will use video demos and transcripts to reveal the power of this model.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Gottman Method |  Conflict |  Relationships |  Avoidant
Bundle(s):
CC19 Main Conference Audio Bundle | CC19 Individual Selections
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2019 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Carrie Cole, M.Ed, LPC |  Donald Cole, DMIN, LPC, LMFT
Duration:
1:19:09
Format:
Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 12, 2019
Short Description:
Particular attention will be given to working with couples displaying two patterns of dysfunction: escalation and avoidance.
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$15.00 - Base Price

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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Gottman Method |  Conflict |  Avoidant
Bundle(s):
CC19 Main Conference Audio Bundle | CC19 Individual Selections
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2019 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Carrie Cole, M.Ed, LPC |  Donald Cole, DMIN, LPC, LMFT
Duration:
1:19:55
Format:
Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Apr 12, 2019
Short Description:
Particular attention will be given to working with couples displaying two patterns of dysfunction: escalation and avoidance.
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Couples Therapy |  Developmental Therapy Model |  Experiential Therapy |  Conflict |  Confrontation |  Therapeutic Model |  Trauma
Bundle(s):
CC19 Main Conference Video Bundle
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2019
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1:47:01
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 14, 2019
Short Description:
This advanced workshop is designed to demonstrate core concepts of The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. Participants will Increase their skills in the Initiator-Inquirer process and in effective confrontation and incisive resolution of intrapsychic conflicts. Join Ellyn Bader and learn how to make developmental assists, strengthen your confrontation skills and promote couples development.
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Communication |  Conflict |  Keynotes |  Relationships |  Social Issues |  Training
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2021 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1 Hour
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Jun 05, 2021
Short Description:
Increasingly more and more couples are working together or working virtually in the same space. It is estimated that in the United States 43% of small businesses are family-run and 53% of managers share day-to-day management with a spouse. Working together tends to eclipse romance and dominate a couples life. As therapists, we tend to look at our couples/clients mainly through the lens of our favorite therapy model. However, couples who work together face unique challenges that are not rooted in attachment styles or family of origin conflicts.
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Topic Areas:
Social Issues |  Intimacy |  Conflict |  Couples Therapy |  Keynotes
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2021 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
William Doherty, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1 Hour
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Jun 05, 2021
Short Description:
We live in the most polarized era since the 1850s. The presenter will describe the connection between escalating couple conflict and escalating political polarization. He will propose ways that therapists can work with politically divided couples, and he will describe his work since 2016 on “red/blue” polarization in the U.S. via the national nonprofit Braver Angels. He will argue that couples therapists have much to offer a nation in trouble.
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Mindfulness |  Keynotes |  Conflict |  Relationships
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2021 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD |  Caroline S. Welch
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
58 Minutes
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Jun 05, 2021
Short Description:
Exploration of how mindfulness can provide an accessible, useful tool in couples therapy, not only for the therapist, the two individuals, and their relationship, but also for the therapeutic process. Mindfulness can be practically applied through Caroline Welch’s 3Ps approach of Purpose, Pivoting, and Pacing to cultivate more resilience which is important to cultivate in couples therapy.
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Conflict |  Developmental Therapy Model |  IMAGO |  Infidelity |  LGBTQ |  Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) |  Relationships |  Sex and Sexuality
Categories:
Couples Conference |  Couples Conference 2020 |  Online Continuing Education
Faculty:
Ellyn Bader, PhD |  Joseph Winn, MSW, LICSW, CST-S |  Terry Real, LICSW |  Harville Hendrix, PhD |  Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD |  Martha Kauppi, MS MFT |  Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT |  William Doherty, PhD |  ....
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
4 Hours
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Apr 03, 2020
Short Description:
A streaming option in place of the Couples Conference 2020 4 hour event. This recording provides a comprehensive cross-section of a variety of approaches to couples therapy, including specific therapeutic models, discussions on sexual desire discrepancies, working with resistance in the therapy room and more.
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Topic Areas:
Clinical Demonstrations |  Dreamwork |  Conflict |  Psychotherapy |  Therapist Development
Categories:
Evolution of Psychotherapy |  Evolution of Psychotherapy 2005
Faculty:
John Gottman, PhD |  Julie Gottman, PhD
Duration:
58 Minutes
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Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Dec 10, 2005
Short Description:
Educational Objectives: To list the characteristics of gridlock on perpetual issues. To list the characteristics of dialogue on perpetual issues. 
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Topic Areas:
Workshops |  Marriage |  Conflict |  Couples Therapy |  Gottman Method |  Psychotherapy
Categories:
Evolution of Psychotherapy |  Evolution of Psychotherapy 2005
Faculty:
John Gottman, PhD |  Julie Gottman, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
2:42:40
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Dec 08, 2005
Short Description:
Scientific research on marriage will be reviewed to answer two questions: What is dysfunctional when a marriage is failing, and what is functional when a marriage is working well? Myths and misconceptions about these questions will be discussed. Research findings will be reviewed to derive two checklists. Although checklists are helpful, they are not fully adequate. To assess a marriage and to intervene we need theory, which will be delineated.
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Topic Areas:
Couples Therapy |  Invited Addresses |  Communication |  Conflict |  Psychotherapy
Categories:
Evolution of Psychotherapy |  Evolution of Psychotherapy 2013
Faculty:
Harville Hendrix, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
58:14
Format:
Audio and Video
Original Program Date:
Dec 15, 2013
Short Description:
In the old way of thinking, stressed couples were depicted as a failed communication system of interacting pathologies that could be improved by therapists dispensing conflict resolution skills. In the new way of thinking, couples are the source of mutual healing and the fulcrum for social transformation. This lecture will discuss how that shift occurred and its implications, not only for the happiness of couples, but for the relational well-being of society.
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Topic Areas:
Conversation Hours |  Couples Therapy |  Conflict |  Existential Therapy |  Psychotherapy |  Relationships |  Intimacy
Bundle(s):
EP17 Audio Streaming Build a Bundle
Categories:
Evolution of Psychotherapy |  Evolution of Psychotherapy 2017
Faculty:
John Gottman, PhD |  Julie Gottman, PhD
Course Levels:
Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
Duration:
1:03:04
Format:
Audio Only
Original Program Date:
Dec 15, 2017
Short Description:
EP17 Conversation Hour 05 - John Gottman, PhD and Julie Gottman, PhD Educational Objectives: Describe why not all relationship conflict is the same, and why some conflicts require the therapist to be an existential psychologist. Describe why it is so vital for therapists to measure physiology in couples’ therapy. Describe what Gottman sound relationship house theory and Gottman method couples therapy offers in the following domains: (1) friendship and intimacy, (2) conflict management, (3) shared meaning, (4) trust, and (5) commitment.
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