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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Psychodynamics
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2021
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 2 hours
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 05, 2021
- Short Description:
- Bader presents strategies for managing infidelity crises in therapy, emphasizing direct engagement with conflict, addressing obsessive rumination constructively, and understanding the deeper meanings behind affairs. Using case examples, she highlights the importance of honesty, self-reflection, and confronting various types of lies to rebuild trust. Bader outlines therapeutic skills necessary for both partners—empowering the betrayed partner to find their voice, fostering self-esteem, and encouraging the betrayer to take accountability. She also addresses therapist neutrality, transparency, and navigating challenges like sexless marriages through honest and difficult conversations.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Developmental Therapy Model | Experiential Therapy | Conflict | Confrontation | Therapeutic Model | Trauma
- Bundle(s):
- CC19 Main Conference Video Bundle
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2019
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:47:01
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 14, 2019
- Short Description:
- This advanced workshop is designed to demonstrate core concepts of The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy. Participants will Increase their skills in the Initiator-Inquirer process and in effective confrontation and incisive resolution of intrapsychic conflicts. Join Ellyn Bader and learn how to make developmental assists, strengthen your confrontation skills and promote couples development.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Confrontation | Family Systems | Psychodynamics | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Sue Diamond, MA, RCC
- Duration:
- 1:32:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Cognitive Psychology | Communication | Family Systems | Psychoanalysis | Relationships | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:31:22
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. We’ll use clinical videos and transcripts to identify and disrupt deception. You’ll learn to successfully confront the evasiveness, hypocrisy and avoidance that keep couples developmentally arrested and differentiation failing.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Confrontation | Couples Therapy | Behavioral Psychology | Developmental Therapy Model | Family Systems | Psychoanalysis | Psychotherapy | Relationships | Therapist Techniques | Training
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:48:02
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2007
- Short Description:
- Bader reveals six confrontation styles—from gentle interventions to powerful 'bombshell' techniques—that help therapists challenge clients while maintaining therapeutic rapport. Learn how strategic confrontation can transform relationship dynamics and support couples' growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Confrontation Couples Therapy Emotional Growth Empathy Experiential Learning Family Systems Hypnotic Communication Observation Pattern Interruption Rapport Reframing Self-Organizing Change Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Validation Creative Confrontation Defensive Cycles Emotional Accountability Intrapsychic Issues Negative Patterns Empathic Confrontation Passive Aggression Symbiotic Relationships Grief Processing Self-Respect Building Role Play

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Communication | Confrontation | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 2:08:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2007
- Short Description:
- The repair process is a detailed formula for helping someone in a state of hurt or frustration move back into satisfactory connection. The process begins with the speaker, teaching the distressed person how to use the feedback wheel- a fourstep prescription for speaking that is effective and clean. Then we tum to the skills of listening and responding, laying out techniques of radical generosity-a sophisticated way to understand your partner's experience and respond to it in the most responsible, (and disarming) manner.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Developmental Therapy Model | Confrontation | Therapist Development | Family Systems | Motivation | Therapist Techniques | Psychotherapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2005
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:45:16
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 05, 2005
- Short Description:
- A comprehensive workshop exploring effective couples therapy techniques. Learn to address relationship challenges through a developmental model focusing on breaking negative cycles, setting goals, and fostering individual growth. Includes practical strategies for therapist engagement, self-assessment homework, and skill-building interventions to help couples move beyond blame and reconnect.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Confrontation Couples Therapy Therapist Development Developmental Therapy Model Autonomy Emotional Connection Emotional Growth Experiential Learning Pattern Interruption Reframing Relationship Dynamics Strategic Interventions Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Therapeutic Experimentation Utilization Goal Setting Negative Cycles Skill Development Self-Assessment Destructive Cycle Communication Skills Relationship Goals Emotional Work Conflict Resolution

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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Confrontation | Attachment | Behavioral Psychology | Psychoanalysis | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2004
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:32:12
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 26, 2004
- Short Description:
- Exploration of the art of confrontation in couples therapy, balancing empathy and directness. Bader outlines six confrontation styles and shares strategies for addressing issues like addiction, trust, and conflict avoidance. Through video examples and case studies, she demonstrates how therapists can navigate complex dynamics—considering culture, gender, and individual histories—while helping clients confront passivity, express motivations, and take responsibility for change.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Clinical Demonstrations | Group Therapy | Redecision Therapy | Psychotherapy | Confrontation | Humor
- Bundle(s):
- Pioneers of Psychotherapy Bundle
- Categories:
- Pioneers of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 1985
- Faculty:
- Mary Goulding, MSW | Robert L. Goulding, MD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 00:58:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 13, 1985
- Short Description:
- Robert and Mary Goulding (1985), working as cotherapists, demonstrate using five volunteer clients. The concerns of each individual are addressed during the therapy session. The Gouldings help define each person’s goals and establish a contract for change. The session includes role-play, fantasy, confrontation and the use of humor.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price