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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Ethical Practice | Therapist Development
- Bundle(s):
- 2024 Couples Conference Bundle
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2024 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- William Doherty, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 57:54
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 04, 2024
- Short Description:
- Therapists experience the same relationship issues we see in our offices. Although our clinical training may give us more access to our inner emotional lives than many people, we face “occupational hazards,” such as a tendency to read our partner’s mind and then explain it to them. With humility and humor, let’s explore the relational self of the therapist and how we sometimes show up in couple therapy. In this workshop, we’ll learn how to how to help fellow therapists when they come as clients to leverage their personal and professional strengths to have healthier relationships—and avoid blind spots that come with the territory.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Ethical Practice | Therapist Development
- Bundle(s):
- 2024 Couples Conference Bundle
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2024 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- William Doherty, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:47:03
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 04, 2024
- Short Description:
- Although nowadays we have great models of couple therapy, therapists can become pessimistic in working with difficult couples—and inadvertently send messages that undermine their relationships. Based on a new research study with clients who have been in couple therapy, this presentation will describe things to generally avoid saying to couples about their relationship and its prospects for repair. The workshop will offer a mindset for staying positive with couples and a set of skills for handling therapeutic impasses without resorting to making comments that undermine the therapy and the couple relationship.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Therapeutic Relationship | Therapist Development | Evidence-Based Practice
- Bundle(s):
- Couples Conference 2022
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2022 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- William Doherty, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 57:40
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Jun 24, 2022
- Short Description:
- In this golden age for models of couples therapy, therapists may wonder if they should be practicing the “one best model.” The research is clear that couples therapy models that have been tested are about equally effective, and that there are a number of key ingredients in any effective way to practice couples therapy. The presenter will describe these key ingredients that cut across models and some skills necessary to practice any model. He will argue that since this therapy is about improving relationships, the relationships we establish with our couple clients—balanced, caring, and sometimes challenging—are the heart of what we have to do well.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Speeches | Addiction | Co-Occurring Disorders | Family Systems
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2021 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Claudia Black, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1 hour
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 04, 2021
- Short Description:
- Working with the young adult with addictive disorders most frequently involves addressing the experience of bullying, physical and sexual abuse, emotional abandonment and loss. These dynamics are significant in addressing the more frequent co-occurring disorders of anxiety and depression. This presentation will also offer a framework for treatment strategies.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Communication | Cultural and Social Contexts | Therapeutic Process
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2020 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Harville Hendrix, PhD | Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1 hour 45 minutes
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 09, 2020
- Short Description:
- This workshop is on Safe Conversations, a global initiative to build a relational culture through respectful, emotionally safe communication. Originating in Dallas, the project promotes zero negativity, daily affirmations, and structured dialogue practices like mirroring and validation. Emphasis is placed on relational competence, healing childhood wounds, and strengthening connections within couples and families as a path to broader social transformation.
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Anxiety | Couples Therapy | IMAGO | Conflict | Gender
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2018 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Harville Hendrix, PhD | Helen LaKelly Hunt, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:47:37
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 04, 2018
- Short Description:
- This workshop focuses on building safety and connection in relationships using Imago therapy. Participants practice mirroring, validation, and sharing childhood experiences to better understand unmet needs. Key concepts include emotional symbiosis, the “space between” partners, and the dynamic between “hailstorm” and “turtle” personalities. Emphasis is placed on empathy, mutual healing, and the impact of early experiences on adult relationships.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Great Debates | Gestalt | Strategic Therapy | Psychotherapy | Couples Therapy | Ericksonian Hypnosis and Therapy Techniques | Humor
- Bundle(s):
- Learning Track - EP17 Gestalt Download | EP17 Audio Streaming Build a Bundle
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2017 | Evolution of Psychotherapy Gestalt Learning Track | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Erving Polster, PhD | Cloe Madanes, HDL, LIC
- Duration:
- 1:24:56
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 14, 2017
- Short Description:
- Erving Polster and Cloe Madanes discuss the strengths of present-centered and strategic therapies. Madanes highlights systemic interventions and directive techniques, including a case of resolving schizophrenia through structured activity. Polster emphasizes Gestalt therapy’s focus on action and process. Both stress the value of simplicity, attunement to client needs, and the central role of the therapeutic relationship in effective treatment.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Relationships | Crisis Therapy | Attachment | Emotional Regulation | Therapeutic Model
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 23:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- Ellyn will present a video of a first session with a couple about to separate after a third discovered infidelity. The session, conducted by Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson focuses on illuminating how one partner’s unresolved family of origin issues create pain for both partners, contribute to infidelity and inhibit the development of the relationship. After the video presentation, Janis Spring will comment. We all learn more when we see therapeutic work discussed from multiple perspectives.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Relationships | Behavioral Psychology | Group Therapy | Psychoanalysis
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 02:00:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Relationships | Attachment | Differentiation | Gender Dynamics | Grandiosity | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 34:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 14, 2016
- Short Description:
- This workshop presents an intensive, truth-driven approach to saving marriages through Relational Life Therapy. It introduces the concept of psychological patriarchy—structured around the great divide, the dance of contempt, and core collusion—and outlines how therapists can disrupt these dynamics by fostering accountability, intimacy, and new relational skills. The focus is on deep repair, often in couples who have failed in previous therapies, with an emphasis on competence rather than gender.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Relationships | Therapist Development | Community | Communication
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- William Doherty, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:50:01
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 26, 2015
- Short Description:
- People turn to friends and family long before they go to a couples therapist. Marital First Responders is a new training program for people who are natural confidants on relationship problems: people turn to them for support and perspective. Learn what the training involves, tune your skills in being a confidant in your own social world, and see if you’d like to teach this course in your community.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Confrontation | Family Systems | Psychodynamics | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Sue Diamond, MA, RCC
- Duration:
- 1:32:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Relationships | Therapist Development | Conflict | Divorce
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- William Doherty, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:42:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- How to work with partners who are leaning in difference directions about staying together and trying therapy. Learn core techniques and see a video demonstration of how to work confidently with these challenging couples. You will learn the key pathways offered couples in Discernment Counseling.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Couples Therapy Relationships Therapist Development Discernment Counseling Future Orientation Mixed Agenda Couples Pattern Interruption Reframing Strategic Interventions Tailoring Utilization Conflict Pre-Divorce Counseling Reconciliation Barriers Therapeutic Framing Emotional Reconnection Narrative Shifts
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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Trauma | Family Therapy | Invited Addresses | Psychotherapy | Co-Occurring Disorders | Family Systems
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Claudia Black, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:02:07
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 14, 2013
- Short Description:
- When people think of trauma they often think of acute dramatic situations, such as a natural disaster or acts of terrorism. Yet, the majority of people who experience trauma experience a more subtle and chronic form that exists within their own family. Beginning with a genogram, Claudia Black, Ph.D., will give a portrait of addiction in the family, offering an overlay of how adverse child experiences, emotional abandonment and blatant violence are all aspects of the trauma.
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- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Clinical Psychology | Humanistic Therapy | Psychoanalysis | Relationships | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, ABPP | Michele Weiner-Davis, LCSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:01:24
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 20, 2013
- Short Description:
- A panel of expert therapists delves into the intricate challenges of infidelity, discussing healing strategies, emotional complexities, and therapeutic approaches for couples navigating the aftermath of an affair. Panelists share insights on creating hope, understanding individual experiences, and supporting couples through the difficult journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy.
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- Topic Areas:
- Depression | Workshops | Masculinity | Couples Therapy | Gender | Addiction | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:25:11
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- This workshop addresses the often-overlooked crisis of male depression, affecting an estimated 11 million men. It examines how cultural stigma and rigid gender roles contribute to covert depression—masked by workaholism, substance use, withdrawal, and anger. The session introduces the concept of "compound depression," where men feel ashamed of their vulnerability. Strategies include therapy, medication, peer support, partner involvement, and building relational skills to break the silence and promote healing.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Family Therapy | Topical Panels | Cognitive Psychology | Neuroscience | Strategic Therapy | Systems Theory | Therapist Techniques | Cross-Cultural Therapy
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Camillo Loriedo, MD, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT | Frank Dattilio, PhD, ABPP
- Duration:
- 1:02:20
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 07, 2012
- Short Description:
- Experts explore innovative techniques for working with couples and families, combining cognitive-behavioral methods, systems thinking, and cultural sensitivity to address relationship challenges effectively. Learn strategies for identifying motivation, navigating cultural differences, and creating meaningful therapeutic interventions.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Anger | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Passive-Aggressiveness | Behavioral Therapy | Psychology | Relationships | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:09:17
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2011
- Short Description:
- Explore couples therapy techniques for addressing hostile, angry partners. Learn specialized strategies for managing conflict, processing emotional trauma, and helping couples develop effective communication skills. Includes practical interventions like the Twilight Zone exercise and rapid repair technique, with insights into relationship dynamics and therapeutic approaches.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Anger Couples Therapy Intimacy Passive-Aggressiveness Developmental Stages Emotional Development Emotional Growth Hostile Couples Human Development Pattern Interruption Rapport Strategic Interventions Therapeutic Experimentation Trauma Validation Trauma Triggers Rapid Repair Technique Self-Soothing

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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Workshops | Developmental Therapy Model | Differentiation | Behavioral Psychology | Family Systems | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2010 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:54:30
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 12, 2010
- Short Description:
- The workshop delves into couples therapy by integrating attachment theory, differentiation, and neuroscience. Participants learn about relationship developmental stages, attachment styles, and conflict resolution techniques like the "ouch" method. The session explores challenges with different couple types, gender dynamics, and personal histories, using case studies to demonstrate how self-disclosure, addressing unresolved issues, and differentiation-based approaches can help couples develop deeper emotional connections and personal growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2010
- Faculty:
- Wendel Ray, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:09:34
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 12, 2010
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores the principles of MRI brief therapy, emphasizing systemic thinking, client-centered language, and therapist accountability. It covers key figures like Don Jackson, Gregory Bateson, and Milton Erickson, highlighting minimalism, small changes, and avoiding diagnostic labels. Discussions include John Weakland and Richard Fisch’s Competency-Based Brief Therapy, focusing on initial client engagement and problem definition. Practical examples illustrate subtle interventions and the importance of aligning with clients' perspectives to facilitate change.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Brief Therapy Richard Fisch Wendel Ray John Weakland Adaptation Attunement Behavioral Change Indirect Suggestion Learning Naturalistic Change Observation Pattern Interruption Problem-Solving Therapy Rapport Reframing Strategic Interventions Strategic Therapy Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Utilization

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Avoidant | Addiction | Attachment | Behavioral Therapy | Family Systems | Neuroscience | Psychoanalysis | Psychotherapy | Trauma Studies
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:23:01
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- A comprehensive workshop exploring intimacy avoidance in couples, revealing therapeutic strategies to help partners overcome fear of vulnerability, challenge core beliefs, and develop deeper emotional connections through authentic communication and courageous self-exposure.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Avoidant Couples Therapy Intimacy Addiction Anxiety Attunement Conflict Avoidance Differentiation Domestic Violence Emotional Growth Experiential Therapy Hostile Couples Observation Pattern Interruption Phenomenological Approach Rapport Self-Discovery Symbiotic Relationships Therapeutic Alliance Trauma Validation Vulnerability Intimacy Avoidance Emotional Withdrawal Emotional Tension Substance Use

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Conflict | Relationships | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:52:50
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- The reason why most couples' characteristic fights never get resolved is because in our most heated moments, we stop fighting with each other. Core negative images (CNIs) start fighting and the two real partners get lost. This workshop teaches participants how to help partners identify, make explicit, accept, and ultimately work with one another's core negative images. As partners are taught to utilize each other's CNIs, rather than fight them, all sorts of creative and deliberating possibilities emerge.
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- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Conflict Couples Therapy Relationships Core Negative Images Emotional Dynamics Relational Grid Strategic Confrontation Behavioral Cycles Amplification of Consequences Pattern Interruption Reframing Responsibility Strategic Use of Self Emotional Grid Grandiosity Shame Internalized Models Couples Conflict Strategic Repair

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Confrontation | Couples Therapy | Behavioral Psychology | Developmental Therapy Model | Family Systems | Psychoanalysis | Psychotherapy | Relationships | Therapist Techniques | Training
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:48:02
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2007
- Short Description:
- Bader reveals six confrontation styles—from gentle interventions to powerful 'bombshell' techniques—that help therapists challenge clients while maintaining therapeutic rapport. Learn how strategic confrontation can transform relationship dynamics and support couples' growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Confrontation Couples Therapy Emotional Growth Empathy Experiential Learning Family Systems Hypnotic Communication Observation Pattern Interruption Rapport Reframing Self-Organizing Change Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Validation Creative Confrontation Defensive Cycles Emotional Accountability Intrapsychic Issues Negative Patterns Empathic Confrontation Passive Aggression Symbiotic Relationships Grief Processing Self-Respect Building Role Play

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Communication | Confrontation | Relationships | Intimacy | Therapist Techniques | Cultural and Social Contexts
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 2:08:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2007
- Short Description:
- This workshop presents a practical and emotionally intelligent approach to repairing and strengthening relationships. It addresses the gap between outdated relational habits and modern needs for intimacy, emphasizing the value of vulnerability, emotional maturity, and accountability. Core tools include recognizing destructive patterns like control and withdrawal, adopting “winning strategies” such as constructive complaint and radical generosity, and building relational joy through empathy, clear communication, and mutual respect.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Marriage | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Relationships | Gender | Intimacy | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:16:02
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2007
- Short Description:
- Presents a relational therapy approach that addresses the shift from traditional marriage roles to modern, emotionally connected partnerships. Focuses on relational empowerment, helping partners confront grandiosity, form respectful alliances, and build intimacy through direct engagement and systemic change.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price