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- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Betrayal | Communication | Couples Therapy | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2022 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Ari Tuckman, PsyD | Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:00:34
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Jun 25, 2022
- Short Description:
- Experts examine lies and deception in relationships, revealing four types of lies and strategies for rebuilding trust. The panel explores therapist techniques for detecting dishonesty, understanding partner motivations, and supporting couples through significant betrayals. Key insights include the importance of transparency, self-awareness, and mutual commitment to healing.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Psychodynamics
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2021 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 2 hours
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 05, 2021
- Short Description:
- Bader presents strategies for managing infidelity crises in therapy, emphasizing direct engagement with conflict, addressing obsessive rumination constructively, and understanding the deeper meanings behind affairs. Using case examples, she highlights the importance of honesty, self-reflection, and confronting various types of lies to rebuild trust. Bader outlines therapeutic skills necessary for both partners—empowering the betrayed partner to find their voice, fostering self-esteem, and encouraging the betrayer to take accountability. She also addresses therapist neutrality, transparency, and navigating challenges like sexless marriages through honest and difficult conversations.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | LGBTQ | Relationships | Sex and Sexuality | Communication
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Rick Miller, MSW | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:00:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2017
- Short Description:
- The gay male subculture emphasizes easy sexual hookups as a norm, without questioning whether this is actually healthy for a couple. This workshop will define how male couples choose exclusivity successfully, how healthy attachment is an important component for considering an open relationship and provide guidelines for managing open boundaries within a couple. Norms in the subculture will be compared to stereotypical heterosexual couples, including what actually constitutes deception or affairs, and how transform deception to a deeper intimacy.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Couples Therapy | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Neurobiology | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
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- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Deception | Addiction | Narrative Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Alexandra Katehakis, MA, MFT | Marty Klein, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 56:45
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This panel explores infidelity as a multifaceted breach of trust, extending beyond sexual betrayal. Drawing from psychodynamic and neurobiological perspectives, the presenters examine deception, gaslighting, and confabulation. Clinical focus includes managing countertransference, maintaining therapeutic neutrality, and guiding partners through accountability, emotional repair, and post-crisis growth.
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Sale is $29.00
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- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Deception | Addiction | Narrative Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Alexandra Katehakis, MA, MFT | Marty Klein, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 56:45
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This panel explores infidelity as a multifaceted breach of trust, extending beyond sexual betrayal. Drawing from psychodynamic and neurobiological perspectives, the presenters examine deception, gaslighting, and confabulation. Clinical focus includes managing countertransference, maintaining therapeutic neutrality, and guiding partners through accountability, emotional repair, and post-crisis growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Relationships | Behavioral Psychology | Group Therapy | Psychoanalysis
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 02:00:14
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 15, 2016
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Attachment | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 02:10:07
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This session explores deception in couples therapy through a psychobiological lens, integrating attachment, arousal regulation, and neuroscience. Tatkin highlights the limits of conscious awareness in relational conflict and the role of implicit memory and nonverbal cues in uncovering hidden agendas. Using tools like digital video analysis, cross-questioning, and presumptive statements, therapists are guided to promote secure functioning and foster repair following betrayal.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Confrontation | Family Systems | Psychodynamics | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Sue Diamond, MA, RCC
- Duration:
- 1:32:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Deception | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Cognitive Psychology | Communication | Family Systems | Psychoanalysis | Relationships | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:31:22
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. We’ll use clinical videos and transcripts to identify and disrupt deception. You’ll learn to successfully confront the evasiveness, hypocrisy and avoidance that keep couples developmentally arrested and differentiation failing.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Couples Therapy | Topical Panels | Attachment | Clinical Psychology | Evolutionary Psychology | Relationships | Sex and Sexuality | Sociology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Helen E. Fisher, PhD | John Gottman, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:04
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Experts explore the intricate landscape of infidelity, examining its psychological, evolutionary, and cultural dimensions. Top relationship researchers reveal groundbreaking insights into why affairs happen, their impact on couples, and the complex therapeutic approaches needed to heal relationships. A compelling examination of trust, betrayal, and human connection in modern partnerships.
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Dialogues | Brief Therapy | Deception
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2010
- Faculty:
- Jon Carlson | Jeffrey Kottler, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:01:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 11, 2010
- Short Description:
- BT10 Dialogue 06 - When Clients Lie - Jon Carlson, EdD, PsyD, Jeffrey Kottler, PhD When Clients Lie, a dialogue with Jon Carlson and Jeffrey Kottler
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Brief Therapy Deception
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Ethical Practice | Supervision | Therapist Development
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Claudia Black, PhD
- Duration:
- 2 Hours 41 Minutes
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 09, 2009
- Short Description:
- This session addresses the impact of sexual betrayal and compulsive sexual behavior on partners and families. Black examines co-sex addiction, family of origin issues, and the dynamics of deception and false perceptions in relationships. Topics include early stabilization, full disclosure, boundary setting, codependency, spiritual healing, and recovery strategies.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Deception | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Differentiation | Relationships | Behavioral Therapy | Clinical Psychology | Communication | Developmental Psychology | Psychoanalysis | Therapist Techniques | Therapy Practice | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:01:31
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2007
- Short Description:
- Bader delves into the complex landscape of honesty in intimate relationships. Drawing from research and clinical experience, she examines the nuanced ways couples deceive each other, from minor "loving lies" to devastating betrayals. Bader explores how differentiation—the ability to authentically express oneself while respecting a partner's separate identity—is crucial for building trust and intimacy. Through case studies and therapeutic techniques, she offers professionals practical strategies for helping couples navigate affairs, overcome deception, and develop the emotional courage to be truly known by one another.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price