Description:
Everybody lies. Some lies are loving and harmless. But, others are enormously destructive. Couples’ patterns of deception often begin innocently but end in couples destroying the love they once had. Self- deception, conflict avoidance and felony lies all undermine commitment and connection. Learn to identify and disrupt deception, confront evasiveness and hypocrisy and facilitate differentiation.
Educational Objectives:
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Workshop Introduction
Lying in Relationships
Lies, Conflict Avoidance & Relationship Stages
Detecting Deception in Therapy
Jealousy and "Lie Invitees"
Confronting Lies & Infidelity
Therapeutic Interventions & Engagement Exercise
Case Study: Self-Absorbed Addict Couple
Gratitude & Closing
Ellyn Bader, PhD, is a founder and director of The Couples Institute in Menlo Park, California. As a clinical psychologist, workshop leader, author, and speaker, she is dedicated to helping couples create extraordinary relationships. Over the past 30 years she has trained therapists in couples therapy throughout the United States as well as Europe, Asia, South America, and Australia. She served as a Clinical Faculty in Stanford University School of Medicine for 8 years.