The Couples Conference 2015: Manhattan Beach, California
Featuring: Ellyn Bader, William Doherty, Harville Hendrix & Helen LaKelly Hunt, Alexandra Katehakis, Pat Love, Bill O’Hanlon, Peter Pearson, Esther Perel, Stan Tatkin, and Jeffrey Zeig.
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Special Note: Stan Tatkin’s Keynote 2 and the Hendrix/Solomon Topical Panel 2 are unavailable due to technical difficulties. Keynote 5 with Ellyn Bader and Peter Pearson was available onsite only and cannot be sold via the website.
In the old way of thinking, couples were depicted as a communication system that could be improved with relational skills or as interacting psychopathologies needing treatment by a mental health professional. In the new way of thinking, couples are a system of mutually reinforcing interactions that create anxiety or safety, wounding or healing. They also are the source of culture and the fulcrum of social transformation. What happens in the couple happens in the culture; what happens in the culture happens in the couple.
Our natural sexual setpoint explains a lot about arousal, desire and intimate satisfaction. We will explore this issue with research, facts and humor, with the objectives of understanding the effects of estrogen on desire and the effects of testosterone on desire.
This bold take on intimacy and sex grapples with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our need for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. We will tackle eroticism as a quality of vitality in relationships extending far beyond mere sexuality and show how reconciling these two competing needs is at the heart of sustaining desire over time. We will address paradoxes of desire and how social forces inhibit erotic expression; attachment history and the erotic blueprint.
Understanding couples development will give you a powerful way to assess what is wrong and to lead couples to make sustained change. Learn to integrate principles from attachment theory, differentiation theory and neuroscience to direct your treatment decisions. Skillfully integrating these approaches will enable you to manage couples hostility calmly, confront partner’s outrageous demands and disrupt conflict avoidance.
Rituals have been used for thousands of years to help people move through difficult developmental times, to move on from problems and stuck places and to grieve and leave trauma behind. In this session, you will discover the two types of rituals that can help couples resolve their issues effectively.
What do you do with couples who are split on trying to working on their relationship or calling it quits? They are often poor candidate for traditional couples therapy but they are idea candidates for "Discernment Counseling," a creative way of working with couples our therapy models are not designed for. We will discuss the difference between couples therapy and discernment counseling.
This 6-hour program addresses the profound changes that are taking place in the health system in the U.S., the implications for mental health care, and, in turn, the implications for mental health care providers. We begin with a discussion of the role of the insurance industry in health care and how that role has expanded over the past 50-60 years, affecting the licensure and practices of mental health professionals. From there, we move to the current changes themselves, including:
This workshop will address two challenging issues that surface in couples therapy: addiction and self absorption. Through the lens of the Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, we will emphasize how to make strategic treatment decisions that propel couples toward sobriety and more collaborative functioning. Case examples will demonstrate the challenge of confronting individual partners with addictive or self-absorbed behaviors, while simultaneously supporting the developmental growth of the couple.