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- Topic Areas:
- Dialogues | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2007
- Faculty:
- Pat Love, EdD | Jeffrey Zeig, PhD
- Duration:
- 59:33
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2007
- Short Description:
- CC07 Dialogue 02 - Integrating Sex Therapy into Couples Counseling - Pat Love, EdD, and Jeffrey Zeig, PhD
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Love | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008
- Faculty:
- Otto Kernberg, MD
- Duration:
- 56:57
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 26, 2008
- Short Description:
- This presentation will explore the expression of basic conflicts between love and aggression in a couple’s sexual life, their daily interactions, and their value systems. The analysis of chronic couples’ conflicts will be followed by the outline of an essentially psychoanalytic approach to their diagnostic assessment, and the characteristics of analytic and supportive strategies of treatment.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Assessment | Couples Therapy | Conflict | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008
- Faculty:
- Otto Kernberg, MD
- Duration:
- 2:27:19
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2008
- Short Description:
- This workshop will explore the assessment of the functioning of couples in their sexual life, their daily interactions, and their individual and jointly arrived at value systems. The techniques of this assessment, the combination of couples’ and individual partners’ interviews will be followed by an overview of alternative therapeutic strategies.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Developmental Therapy Model | Differentiation | Behavioral Psychology | Family Systems | Neuroscience | Psychology | Sex and Sexuality | Therapist Development | Therapist Techniques
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:41:27
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 26, 2008
- Short Description:
- Bader reveals how therapists can help partners break destructive cycles, manage anxiety, and build deeper intimacy by understanding attachment, differentiation, and relationship growth stages.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Attachment Couples Therapy Developmental Therapy Model Differentiation Communication Conflict Avoidance Emotional Growth Emotional Triggers Experiential Learning Experiential Therapy Intimacy Observation Problem-Solving Therapy Rapport Reframing Sex and Sexuality Stress Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Trauma Vulnerability Developmental Stages Emotional Development Pornography Use Empathy Development Relationship Repair
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Intimacy | LGBTQ
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 2:00:39
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 26, 2008
- Short Description:
- The story of sex in committed modern couples is one that often tells of a dwindling desire that includes a long list of sexual alibis, claiming to explain the inescapable death of Eros. The absence of fantasy, the proliferation of pornography and affairs, as well as a lack of understanding of the nature of erotic desire all contribute to the predicament. This workshop examines the cultural pressures that shape domesticated sex and the puzzling inverse correlation between greater emotional intimacy and the loss of sexual desire.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Multicultural | Sex and Sexuality | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2008
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 2:16:00
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2008
- Short Description:
- Couples’ expectations about the role of sexuality in intimate relationships have changed dramatically over the past 40 years. We will explore the main ideas of the romantic ideal: how we want our partner to fulfill our needs for connection, belonging and continuity, as well as give the sense of transcendence, mystery and passion. Examining the cultural values of love and respect, freedom and responsibility, and interdependence vs. autonomy, we will map a culturally relevant approach to work with the dilemmas of desire in couples. We also will probe the difference between clearly assigned gender role repartition and the post-feminist egalitarian model.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 53:02
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- CC09 Keynote 03 - Mating and Captivity: The Paradox of Sex and Intimacy - Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Keynotes | Couples Therapy | Gender | LGBTQ | Marriage | Psychology | Love | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Pat Love, EdD
- Duration:
- 56:13
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 03, 2009
- Short Description:
- This presentation explores the biology and developmental psychology of love, sex, sexual orientation, commitment and marriage. Focus is on research and clinical applications.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:35:22
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- The story of intimacy and sexuality in committed modern couples is one that often tells of dwindling desire and includes a long list of sexual alibis, claiming to explain the inescapable weakening of erotic connection. The absence of fantasy, the proliferation of pornography and affairs, as well as a lack of understanding of the nature of erotic desire all contribute to the depression, loneliness and despair. In this workshop we will probe the intricacies of love and desire. Through case examples and video vignettes, Ms. Perel will introduce innovative strategies for partners to take emotional risks when negotiating their dual needs for connection and autonomy, predictability and passion. This model applies to young, old, married and not, heterosexual and same sex couples.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Intimacy | Marriage | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:28:56
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- No other aspect in the lives of couples, today as well as yesterday, generates more fascination, gossip and fear as infidelity. In our society, sexual infidelity is mostly seen as a symptom of a relationship gone awry. The revelation of an affair can trigger a crisis that shakes the very foundation of trust and connection in the couple. The purpose of this workshop is to present a multi-cultural, non-judgmental perspective to probe the meanings of affairs, rethink fidelity, and address the complexities of marriage, sex, intimacy, and monogamy. We will look at the value and the price of honesty and truth telling, and explore the circuitous ways affairs aim to stabilize a marriage and prevent the dissolution of the family.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Attachment | Clinical Psychology | Sex and Sexuality | Sociology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Marty Klein, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT | Jette Simon
- Duration:
- 56:56
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2011
- Short Description:
- A thought-provoking exploration of infidelity, examining its psychological roots, cultural contexts, and potential for relationship transformation. Experts delve into the complex motivations behind affairs, challenging traditional views on monogamy and offering nuanced insights into healing and growth after betrayal.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Panic | Addiction | Pain and Healing | Sex and Sexuality | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011
- Faculty:
- Marty Klein, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:56:37
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2011
- Short Description:
- This talk presents: 1) current information about porn, its users, and its impact on consumers and their relationships; 2) the common model of how porn use shapes sexual decision-making, and an alternative model that better matches people’s experiences; 3) an alternative to the “porn addiction” model for diagnosing and treating compulsive or impulsive behavior regarding porn.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Workshops | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011
- Faculty:
- Marty Klein, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:03:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2011
- Short Description:
- How do we raise sexual issues? How should we respond when the couple does? Why doesn’t THIS couple enjoy sex, or have sex? Are aging or health issues complicating sexual problems? What’s the ONE cross-cultural issue that matters regarding sexuality? And what’s really a sexual issue—versus an issue of power, grief, resentment, or fear of rejection/abandonment? This PRACTICAL workshop will give you skills you can use on Monday morning.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Workshops | Intimacy | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:26:34
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2011
- Short Description:
- This workshop probes the intricacies of love and desire—how they relate and how they conflict.. Participants will learn how emotional intimacy can inhibit sexual desire and why “good intimacy” doesn’t necessarily make for “good sex.” Through case material and video vignettes, we’ll explore how our emotional history: “how we were loved” shapes our erotic blueprints and expresses itself in the physicality of sex: “how we make love”. We will show how to break through erotic impasses and help couples balance the dual needs for security and freedom. This model applies to couples and individuals from all sexual orientations.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) | Trauma | Workshops | Sex and Sexuality | Gottman Method
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2011
- Faculty:
- Julie Gottman, PhD
- Duration:
- 1 Hour 42 Minutes
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2011
- Short Description:
- Couples therapy is often complicated and delicate when one partner has suffered childhood sexual abuse. The needs of both partners must be honored though one partner’s dream may be the other partner’s nightmare. This workshop describes the details of applying Gottman Method Couples Therapy to a case involving one partner’s history of severe sexual abuse.
- Price:
- $20.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Keynotes | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:47
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Based on Perel’s Mating in Captivity, this bold take on intimacy and sex grapples with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our quest for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. We will tackle eroticism as a quality of aliveness and vitality in relationships extending far beyond mere sexuality and consider how the need for secure attachment and closeness can co-exist with the quest for individuality and freedom.
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- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Couples Therapy | Topical Panels | Attachment | Clinical Psychology | Evolutionary Psychology | Relationships | Sex and Sexuality | Sociology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Helen E. Fisher, PhD | John Gottman, PhD | Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:04
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Experts explore the intricate landscape of infidelity, examining its psychological, evolutionary, and cultural dimensions. Top relationship researchers reveal groundbreaking insights into why affairs happen, their impact on couples, and the complex therapeutic approaches needed to heal relationships. A compelling examination of trust, betrayal, and human connection in modern partnerships.
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Sale is $29.00
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- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:48:13
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2012
- Short Description:
- Sexual infidelity often triggers a crisis that threatens the entire foundation of trust and connection in a couple. In this workshop, we’ll discuss the complexities of marriage, sex, intimacy, and monogamy in couples from a multicultural, nonjudgmental perspective. We’ll explore the motivations behind affairs and their possible meanings in different relationships, both heterosexual and gay. We’ll examine the benefits and costs of truth-telling and transparency, how couples can rebuild trust and intimacy, and why affairs can actually stabilize a marriage. With an eye on the existential, clinical and ethical aspects involved, we will focus on how our own assumptions, values, and personal experiences can influence our therapeutic work and elude the needs of the couple.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Sex and Sexuality | Conflict
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:54:46
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 27, 2012
- Short Description:
- In this workshop, we will look at fantasy as an ingenious way our creative mind overcomes all sorts of relational and intra psychic conflicts around desire and intimacy. Therapists can help clients develop a view of fantasy as a narrative that creates a safe space to experience the pleasure that can invigorate their loving relation-ships. They will decipher the meaning of sexual fantasies, approaching them more as dreams or complex symbolic structures than as literal narratives of secret intentions.
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-
Sale is $29.00
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- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Dialogues | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013
- Faculty:
- Lonnie Barbach, PhD | Marty Klein, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:00:40
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 20, 2013
- Short Description:
- CC13 Dialogue 01 – Sex Therapy – Lonnie Barbach and Marty Klein Educational Objectives: Given a topic, describe the differing approaches to psychotherapy, and identify the strength and weaknesses of each approach.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Workshops | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013
- Faculty:
- Marty Klein, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:51:11
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 19, 2013
- Short Description:
- What do most couples really want from sex? It isn’t endless orgasms, or sex around the clock. Most people want the same old things: connection, pleasure, excitement, mystery, validation. And magic. When the prospect of getting these is slim, satisfaction declines, and desire falls. This is not a “dysfunction;” improving genital “function” is not the answer. The key, instead, often lies in addressing power struggles and control issues; the existential challenges of adulthood; and the need for a new vocabulary. We will discuss how to move couples from perfunctory, infrequent sex to a more vibrant and intriguing experience. We’ll also look at what therapists need internally to help couples discuss sex.
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-
Sale is $29.00
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Pain and Healing | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Conflict | Infidelity | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013
- Faculty:
- Marty Klein, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 2:04:57
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 21, 2013
- Short Description:
- Couples therapy typically pathologizes porn use while legitimizing the grievances of the user’s partner. While this approach may seem logical, it rarely increases sexual/relationship satisfaction. How do we hold both partners while they struggle to define their behavior, contract, and emotions? This talk examines a different approach to intrapsychic conflict and power struggles over porn use. We’ll explore underlying rela-tional issues, including: Is conflict about pornography a way to avoid confronting defi-cits in the sexual (or non-sexual) relationship? Are one or both partners acting out body image issues? Is porn use infidelity?
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Sale is $29.00
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Keynotes | Intimacy | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015
- Faculty:
- Pat Love, EdD
- Duration:
- 53:58
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 24, 2015
- Short Description:
- Our natural sexual setpoint explains a lot about arousal, desire and intimate satisfaction. We will explore this issue with research, facts and humor, with the objectives of understanding the effects of estrogen on desire and the effects of testosterone on desire.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Attachment | Keynotes | Anxiety | Intimacy | Sex and Sexuality | Love
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 57:21
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- This bold take on intimacy and sex grapples with the obstacles and anxieties that arise when our need for secure love conflicts with our pursuit of passion. We will tackle eroticism as a quality of vitality in relationships extending far beyond mere sexuality and show how reconciling these two competing needs is at the heart of sustaining desire over time. We will address paradoxes of desire and how social forces inhibit erotic expression; attachment history and the erotic blueprint.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Sex and Sexuality | Workshops | Love | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:40:17
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 25, 2015
- Short Description:
- Through case examples, Esther Perel will show how to effectively engage such issues as intimacy, sexuality and infidelity by creating separate spaces where each partner can explore his/her feelings and experiences along with larger relationship dynamics. We will show how to navigate privacy and secrecy, honesty and transparency, stage interventions around sexual impasses, and structure a safe and flexible therapeutic environment to work effectively with infidelity.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price