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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Couples Therapy | Trauma
- Bundle(s):
- Couples Conference 2023
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2023 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:20:18
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 05, 2023
- Short Description:
- This workshop presents Relational Life Therapy (RLT), a powerful couples therapy model that integrates deep individual work—such as trauma healing and character transformation—within the presence of a partner. Blending loving confrontation, relational skills training, and inner child work, RLT produces rapid, lasting change. Core concepts include addressing shame and grandiosity, using the wise adult/wounded child/adaptive child framework, and applying empathic reversal to build compassion, accountability, and authentic connection.
- Price:
- $59.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Relationships | Identity | Masculinity
- Bundle(s):
- CC19 Main Conference Audio Bundle | CC19 Individual Selections
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2019 | Online Continuing Education | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:10:29
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 14, 2019
- Short Description:
- This workshop covers phase two of Relational Life Therapy, focusing on Family of Origin and Inner Child Work. It examines how childhood experiences shape each partner’s relational stance and the couple’s dynamic. Key tools include the Relationship Grid, which maps boundaries and self-esteem across four quadrants. The session addresses the impact of patriarchy, grandiosity, and shame, and offers strategies for building healthy self-esteem, managing contempt, and restoring relational balance.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Gender | Trauma
- Bundle(s):
- CC19 Main Conference Audio Bundle | CC19 Individual Selections
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2019 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:02:19
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 12, 2019
- Short Description:
- This presentation outlines the core phases of Relational Life Therapy (RLT): confronting dysfunctional patterns, inner child work, and teaching relational skills. Emphasizing extended sessions and multi-generational trauma, the approach targets power imbalances, grandiosity, and false empowerment. The goal is to foster deep connection and sustainable change through truth-telling, accurate diagnosis, and strategic leverage.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Speeches | Brief Therapy | Couples Therapy | Therapist Development | Relationships
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2018 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:11:45
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 09, 2018
- Short Description:
- This one-hour speech focuses on what all couple therapists should at least consider: social justice and fairness agreements between partners. The human primate is warlike, self-centered, mostly automatic, and given to flights of fancy, moodiness, and other unpredictable feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. Thus, the social science predicate of civilization dictates that, to hold human beings accountable, there must be agreements between individuals that protect them from one another.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Continuing Education | Brief Therapy | Couples Therapy | Transference / Countertransference | Developmental Psychology
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2018 | Online Continuing Education | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 2:00:42
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 07, 2018
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores projective identification in couple therapy—a powerful yet often overlooked dynamic where partners unconsciously project disowned feelings onto each other. Through video demonstrations and clinical techniques like cross-tracking and circular questioning, therapists learn to spot nonverbal cues and emotional undercurrents. Emphasizes brain-based strategies and practical interventions to decode implicit communication and accelerate therapeutic progress.
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Brief Therapy | Trauma | Somatic Experiences | Therapeutic Relationship | Pain and Healing
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2018 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Janina Fisher, PhD
- Duration:
- 2:05:52
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 07, 2018
- Short Description:
- Janina Fisher presents a brief therapy model for trauma treatment, emphasizing the limitations of traditional talk therapy and the need for approaches suited to managed care. She explains how trauma is stored in implicit memory and reviews Bessel van der Kolk’s brain research. Fisher outlines a phase-oriented approach, incorporating psychoeducation, mindfulness, and right-brain-to-right-brain communication. She discusses neurofeedback’s effectiveness, sensory motor psychotherapy’s role in skill development, and strategies for stabilizing clients in unsafe situations.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Brief Therapy Pain & Healing Somatic Experiences Therapeutic Relationship Trauma Adaptation Adaptive Learning Attunement Behavioral Change Emotional Growth Experiential Learning Flexibility Learning Observation Phenomenological Approach Reframing Resilience Self-Discovery Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Unconscious Resources Utilization Validation
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Neuroscience | Keynotes | Continuing Education | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2018 | Online Continuing Education | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 50:59
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 06, 2018
- Short Description:
- This presentation integrates foundational theories of attachment, differentiation, and individuation with current neuroscience to inform a psychobiological approach to couple therapy. Tatkin examines how early developmental models apply to partners with varying social-emotional complexity, highlighting deficits like alexithymia and theory of mind. Clinicians are encouraged to adapt interventions based on cognitive capacity and emphasize face-to-face, collaborative engagement in session.
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Narcissism | Personality Disorders | Borderline | Couples Therapy | Developmental Psychology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2018 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:03:49
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 06, 2018
- Short Description:
- This workshop reframes couple therapy for personality-disordered partners through a psychobiological, polytheoretical lens. Focusing on borderline, narcissistic, and schizoid presentations, it equips clinicians to differentiate these from insecure or neurotic traits and intervene without over-individualizing. Practical tools help therapists manage complex defenses, sustain neutrality, and maintain a strong therapeutic frame in high-stakes relational systems.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Borderline Narcissistic Personality Disorder Couples Therapy Personality Disorders Experiential Learning Narcissism Reframing Strategic Therapy Tailoring Therapeutic Alliance Utilization Borderline Personality Affect Regulation Object Relations Psychotherapeutic Framework Transference Personality Spectrum

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- Topic Areas:
- Sex and Sexuality | Attachment | Workshops | Couples Therapy | Interviewing | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2018 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:59:07
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 04, 2018
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores sex as a core issue in couple therapy, emphasizing psychobiological and attachment-based frameworks. Tatkin presents bottom-up interviewing and assessment techniques that address implicit somatic responses, performance anxiety, and intimacy challenges. Clinicians learn to integrate neurobiology, arousal regulation, and attachment style into practical interventions for treating sexual dissatisfaction and dysfunction.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Clinical Demonstrations with Discussant | Psychotherapy | Storytelling | Domestic Violence | Family Therapy | Strategic Therapy | Ericksonian Hypnosis and Therapy Techniques
- Bundle(s):
- EP17 Video Stream Build a Bundle | Learning Track - EP17 Psychotherapy Stream
- Categories:
- Evolution of Psychotherapy | Evolution of Psychotherapy 2017 | Evolution of Psychotherapy Psychotherapy Learning Track | Online Continuing Education | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Bill O'Hanlon, MS | Cloe Madanes, HDL, LIC
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:30:09
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 14, 2017
- Short Description:
- This session highlights the power of storytelling in therapy, drawing from O’Hanlon’s work and influence by Milton Erickson. Through personal and client stories, including a moving case on infertility and grief, participants explore how narratives foster connection, resilience, and transformation. The discussion emphasizes the balance between self-disclosure and client-centered storytelling, showing how well-timed, relatable stories deepen therapeutic impact and strengthen human connection.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Conflict | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:20:34
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 02, 2017
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores how to identify and resolve deal breakers—conflicts that, left unaddressed, threaten the viability of a relationship. Grounded in a psychobiological approach, Tatkin outlines a structured process that supports secure functioning, including techniques like cross-questioning, the five-minute argument, and amplifying conflict for clarity. Therapists are encouraged to take the long view, helping partners face uncomfortable truths while strengthening alliance and accountability.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Couples Therapy | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Addiction | Deception | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Affairs | Abuse | Neurobiology | Couples Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 55:09
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 01, 2017
- Short Description:
- This presentation examines deception in couple therapy through psychobiological and neurobiological frameworks. Tatkin advocates for cross-disciplinary learning—drawing from neuroscience and animal behavior—to sharpen clinical perception. Emphasis is placed on detecting deception early through micro expressions, behavioral cues, and video analysis, offering therapists strategic tools for addressing affairs, addictions, and trust breaches in relational work.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Betrayal | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 2:08:41
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This workshop examines betrayal in its many forms—infidelity, deception, secrecy—as a core challenge in couple therapy. Using a psychobiological lens, Tatkin emphasizes moving from self- to co-regulation and fostering secure-functioning partnerships built on transparency and mutual care. Techniques like crossing, declarations, and the “King and Queen” exercise help therapists structure repair and guide couples through trust restoration.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Betrayal | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2017 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 2:08:41
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Mar 31, 2017
- Short Description:
- This workshop examines betrayal in its many forms—infidelity, deception, secrecy—as a core challenge in couple therapy. Using a psychobiological lens, Tatkin emphasizes moving from self- to co-regulation and fostering secure-functioning partnerships built on transparency and mutual care. Techniques like crossing, declarations, and the “King and Queen” exercise help therapists structure repair and guide couples through trust restoration.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Family Therapy | Couples Therapy | Topical Panels | Brief Therapy | Marriage | Ericksonian Hypnosis and Therapy Techniques | Systems Thinking | Therapist Development
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Lynn Lyons, LICSW | Wendel Ray, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Jeffrey Zeig, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:02:12
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 10, 2016
- Short Description:
- This panel on family and couples therapy explores control dynamics, dyadic systems, and creative intervention strategies. Topics include historical views on relational control, the use of a psychobiological model for understanding couple dynamics, and family-centered approaches for childhood anxiety. The panelists emphasize metaphor, immediate action, extended sessions, and trust-building as key components for effective therapeutic outcomes.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Neuroscience | Psychology | Dialogues | Mindfulness | Buddhism | Psychotherapy | Couples Therapy | Spiritual Healing
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ronald Siegel, PsyD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:03:00
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 10, 2016
- Short Description:
- This presentation bridges mindfulness, Buddhist psychology, neuroscience, and attachment theory to deepen therapeutic work. It explains how mindfulness fosters awareness and self-regulation, while secure attachment provides emotional safety. Neurobiological insights—like cortical thickening and improved regulation—support the integration of these practices. Practical applications focus on using mindfulness and mutual regulation to enhance attunement and connection in couples therapy.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Neuroscience | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Attachment | Gender Dynamics | Neurobiology
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Pat Love, EdD | Helen E. Fisher, PhD
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 01:01:00
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This panel bridges neuroscience and relational theory, examining how personality, hormones, and brain systems shape intimacy. Fisher presents neurobiological personality types; Tatkin underscores the value of scheduling sex to sustain closeness; and Love explores hormonal influences on gendered relationship challenges. The group reflects on dopamine’s role in love and considers how modern courtship trends may support lasting bonds.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Keynotes | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Neurobiology | Relationships
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 51:04
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This session presents a psychobiological approach to guiding couples toward secure functioning—where partners act as a cooperative, principle-driven system. Tatkin demonstrates cross-dialogic techniques for clarifying attachment strategies, desires, and hidden agendas. Emphasizing non-verbal attunement, state-dependent perception, and strategic therapist stance, the model offers clinicians tools to decode implicit dynamics and foster lasting relational alignment.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Deception | Attachment | Relationships | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT)
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2016 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 02:10:07
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- May 13, 2016
- Short Description:
- This session explores deception in couples therapy through a psychobiological lens, integrating attachment, arousal regulation, and neuroscience. Tatkin highlights the limits of conscious awareness in relational conflict and the role of implicit memory and nonverbal cues in uncovering hidden agendas. Using tools like digital video analysis, cross-questioning, and presumptive statements, therapists are guided to promote secure functioning and foster repair following betrayal.
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- Topic Areas:
- Couples Therapy | Workshops | Psychobiological Approach to Couples Therapy (PACT) | Attachment | Neurobiology | Therapist Development | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT
- Duration:
- 1:54:28
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 24, 2015
- Short Description:
- This workshop explores couple therapy with highly disorganized partners, where therapeutic structure and stance are essential. Using attachment, regulation, and neurobiological models, it addresses trauma-related dysregulation. Clinical examples illustrate how facial cues, pacing, and therapist attunement support emotional regulation and relational repair in the face of volatility.
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- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Topical Panels | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Cultural and Social Contexts
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2015 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Harville Hendrix, PhD | Stan Tatkin, PsyD, MFT | Marion Solomon, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:01:42
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 24, 2015
- Short Description:
- This panel explores how therapists can strengthen connection by addressing the subtle fears that undercut safety and intimacy. Panelists reflect on cultural shifts—like the women’s movement and the rise of conscious partnerships—and call for a more proactive clinical stance: integrating early relationship education, premarital work, and public advocacy to help shape a relationally healthier culture.
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- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Infidelity | Topical Panels | Couples Therapy | Clinical Psychology | Humanistic Therapy | Psychoanalysis | Relationships | Trauma
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2013 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD | Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, ABPP | Michele Weiner-Davis, LCSW
- Course Levels:
- Master Degree or Higher in Health-Related Field
- Duration:
- 1:01:24
- Format:
- Audio and Video
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 20, 2013
- Short Description:
- A panel of expert therapists delves into the intricate challenges of infidelity, discussing healing strategies, emotional complexities, and therapeutic approaches for couples navigating the aftermath of an affair. Panelists share insights on creating hope, understanding individual experiences, and supporting couples through the difficult journey of rebuilding trust and intimacy.
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- Topic Areas:
- Attachment | Neuroscience | Super Courses | Intimacy | Differentiation | Couples Therapy | Developmental Psychology
- Categories:
- Brief Therapy Conference | Brief Therapy Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:51:57
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Dec 09, 2012
- Short Description:
- Learn advanced techniques for understanding relationship dynamics, addressing communication challenges, and supporting couples through complex emotional landscapes. Explore attachment styles, therapeutic interventions, and strategies for helping couples navigate conflict, addiction, and personal growth.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price

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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Communication | Couples Therapy | Narcissism | Personality Disorders | Trauma | Behavioral Psychology | Developmental Therapy Model
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2012 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:01:18
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- Apr 28, 2012
- Short Description:
- Couples come to therapy saying “we can’t communicate.” It sounds simple. Yet what does this really mean? Closer examination often reveals trauma, chronic hostility, narcissistic entitlement, or long-term conflict avoidance. And resolution requires internal self-development that may be resisted by one or both partners. This advanced workshop will use video segments to demonstrate the intricacies of resolving predictable communication breakdowns and supporting couples development.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
Tags: Communication Couples Therapy Narcissistic Personality Disorder Personality Disorders Trauma Communication Breakdown Differentiation Emotional Growth Emotional Vulnerability Experiential Learning Reframing Self-Accountability Self-Discovery Therapeutic Alliance Validation Vulnerability Emotional Maturity Emotional Risk