Description:
Conversation Hour 1 from Evolution of Psychotherapy 1990, featuring Cloe Madanes, Lic. Psychol.
Educational Objectives:
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Outline:
Therapeutic Neutrality and Ethics
Therapists should take moral positions, especially in domestic violence cases.
Ethical influence is essential; neutrality can be harmful.
Motivate abusive individuals to take responsibility.
Sexual Obsessions and Arbitrary Control
Encourage arbitrary, consistent decisions about sexual behavior.
Use replacement actions like exercise or meditation.
Repress rather than explore undesirable sexual impulses.
Clients with AIDS and Sexual Acting Out
Involve family in encouraging responsible behavior.
Extend the therapeutic unit to include significant others.
Advocate for legislative intervention if necessary.
Couples with Communication Issues
Set specific time and place for complaints.
Use structure (e.g., kitchen timer, scripted phrases) to manage conflict.
Promote egalitarian dynamics in relationships.
Paradoxical Interventions and Meaning
Even misunderstood directives can hold therapeutic value.
Use metaphorical interventions to create shifts.
Record sessions for therapist self-review.
Panic Attacks and Family Roles
Involve parents in reinforcing sibling behavior during panic episodes.
Introduce adventurous, empowering activities.
Emphasize family collaboration and support.
Support for Recovering Mothers
Invite family to participate early, then build engagement.
Tailor interventions to children’s developmental stage.
Make small changes to strengthen family unity.
AIDS, Confidentiality, and Ethics
Break confidentiality if partner safety is at risk.
Act when clients refuse to disclose critical health information.
Cultural and Gender Adaptations
Make therapy enjoyable, especially for women dealing with depression.
Stay informed about societal influences.
Customize therapy to client background and experience.
Homework Refusal in Therapy
Apologize and reassess the task.
Let clients design their own homework.
Avoid power struggles over noncompliance.
Divorced Families and Child Issues
Divorce doesn’t end co-parenting responsibilities.
Help parents collaborate despite past resentments.
Involve family to address children's silence or conflict symptoms.
Creative Interventions with Children
Use therapy dogs to aid communication.
Involve school staff and assign caretaking tasks to children.
Create engaging, therapeutic experiences.
Complex Family Dynamics
Help parents assume responsibility rather than blame children.
Assign each child a protector within the family or extended circle.
Be proactive in engaging the whole family system.
Ethics and Life Transitions
Address the emotional shift from being cared for to caring for others.
Reflect on the therapist’s own human condition and growth.
Treating Sexual Abuse and Incest
Use a structured 16-step method emphasizing repentance and reparation.
Serve both victims’ and offenders’ therapeutic needs.
Prepare therapists through dedicated workshops.
Resource Constraints in Urban Agencies
Never deny service due to finances.
Break large family problems into manageable subgroups.
Find protectors and supportive community figures.
Handling Directiveness Complaints
Flip the script: let the client direct others.
Stay adaptable and open to feedback.
Client Deaths and Emotional Trauma
Deliver news of a client’s death personally and sensitively.
Shift focus from abuse history to positive future possibilities.
Cloé Madanes, HDL, LIC, is a world-renowned innovator and teacher of family and strategic therapy and one of the originators of the strategic approach to family therapy. She has authored seven books that are classics in the field: Strategic Family Therapy; Behind the One-Way Mirror; Sex, Love and Violence; The Violence of Men; The Secret Meaning of Money; The Therapist as Humanist, Social Activist and Systemic Thinker; and Relationship Breakthrough. She has presented her work at professional conferences all over the world and has given keynote addresses for The Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference, the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy; the National Association of Social Workers, The Erickson Foundation, the California Psychological Association and many other national and international conferences. Madanes has won several awards for distinguished contribution to psychology and has counseled outstanding individuals from all walks of life.