Description:
This workshop will address how clients with addictive and co-occurring disorders are confounded by family of origin issues. Participants will gain an understanding of· multi-addictive processes. Relationships between these and co-occurring disorders and treatment practices will be addressed.
Educational Objectives:
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Outline:
Understanding Addictive Disorders and Emotional Foundations
Claudia Black introduces addiction as rooted in emotional/psychological issues—especially shame
Workshop agenda includes: emotional fuel for addiction, multi-addictions, PTSD connection
Emphasizes understanding both addicted individuals and their families through personal stories
Shares career journey, initially reluctant to work with children and alcoholics, later diving deep into both
A man avoids his father’s alcoholic fate but ends up in treatment at 55
Bob links childhood shame to his own alcoholism
Story of Cindy shows addiction's cycle—her husband is jailed, prompting her to seek recovery
Encourages clients to name their reality and identify shame-based beliefs
Discusses dysfunctional, co-dependent, troubled, and addictive families
Emotional isolation often hides beneath strong social skills
Denial and unrealistic expectations are key issues in addicted systems
Shame is central—seen as deep-rooted inadequacy
Explores physical/emotional abandonment in addictive homes
Clients must understand their past and find their voice
Self-abandonment arises when people hide parts of themselves to feel safe
Story of a boy who hides vulnerability reflects lifelong emotional impact
Describes coping “masks” like rage and victim roles
Rage can be a defense that masks shame and pushes others away
Victim role includes difficulty setting boundaries and trusting perceptions
Claudia shares her own childhood story to illustrate these behaviors
Depression tied to unresolved sorrow and pathological grief
Childhood defenses can become adult dysfunctions
Loss is often internalized, needing healthy emotional boundaries
Addresses need to feel and process normal life losses
Rooted in fear of doing things wrong; used to seek acceptance
Story of a perfectionist young woman avoiding her emotional pain
These behaviors are driven by shame, not self-worth
Emotional boundaries help resist shame-driven behaviors
"It’s not humanly possible" feeling reflects shame-based thinking
Childhood stories and metaphors highlight early trauma
Emphasizes affirming clients' efforts as “good enough”
Procrastination often tied to feeling inadequate
Controlling behaviors stem from shame, seeking safety/predictability
Rage, manipulation, and false power fall along a control spectrum
Deprivation means believing one doesn’t deserve comfort or joy
Introduces S.A.F.E. (Secretive, Abusive, Feelings, Emptiness) for identifying patterns
Compulsive behaviors, even minor ones, need serious attention
Shame linked to suicide—used to claim control when feeling hopeless
High suicide risk among trauma/abuse survivors
Life journey likened to carrying different "luggage" (emotions, beliefs)
Tolerance for pain can be misleading and harmful
Introduces fictional characters (Scott, Jane, Judith) to show how trauma shapes addiction
Scott: substance abuse, anger, shame
Jane: eating disorder, compulsive purging
Judith: depression, unresolved grief
Each case shows how emotional baggage feeds addiction and harms relationships
Need to address both primary addictions and emotional trauma
Skills like problem-solving, negotiation, and self-care are essential
Highlights addiction interaction disorder (multiple co-occurring addictions)
Emphasizes comprehensive, whole-person treatment
Sexual/physical abuse common among addicted individuals
PTSD leads to disassociation—a coping tool for abuse survivors
Recovery requires recognizing disassociation and regaining self-awareness
Addiction offers temporary relief from shame and trauma
Pain tolerance can lead to self-harm or denial
Addictive behaviors create a cycle of temporary comfort and deeper emptiness
Recovery is painful but necessary—requires safety and support
Connection replaces isolation as the foundation of healing
Therapists must create safe spaces, help clients stand in their pain
Connection, trust, and emotional honesty are vital for lasting recovery
Claudia Black, Ph.D., is internationally recognized for her pioneering and cutting-edge work with family systems and addictive disorders. Her work with children impacted by drug and alcohol addiction in the late 1970s fueled the advancement of the codependency and developmental trauma fields. Dr. Black’s passion to help young adults overcome obstacles and strengthen families built the foundation of the Claudia Black Young Adult Center. Not only is Dr. Black the clinical architect of this groundbreaking treatment program, she is also actively involved with the treatment team, patients, and their families.
Claudia is the author of It Will Never Happen To Me, Changing Course, My Dad Loves Me, My Dad Has A Disease, Repeat After Me, It's Never Too Late To Have A Happy Childhood, Relapse Toolkit, A Hole in the Sidewalk, Depression Strategies, Straight Talk, The Stamp Game, Family Strategies, Anger Strategies, Deceived: Facing Sexual Betrayal, Lies and Secrets, The Truth Begins With Youand her newest title, Intimate Treason: Healing the Trauma for Partners Confronting Sex Addiction. She has produced seven audio CDs addressing issues of addiction and recovery. They are A Time for Healing, Putting the Past Behind, Triggers, Emotional Baggage, Trauma in the Addicted Family, Imageries and Letting Go Imageries. She also has over 20 DVDs for professionals to use working with families and clients.