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Bill O’Hanlon’s Background and Use of Stories
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Career includes 35 books, 3,500+ talks in 27 countries, and songwriting in Nashville.
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Uses storytelling in therapy, inspired by Milton Erickson and structured through NLP.
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Studied storytelling techniques extensively, including attending storytelling festivals.
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Demonstrates storytelling in therapy with a volunteer from the audience.
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Client Case: Annie’s Longing for a Daughter
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Annie has experienced seven miscarriages and extreme pregnancy-related illness.
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Her husband has chosen to prevent future pregnancies; she still longs for a daughter.
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Past trauma includes sexual abuse and bullying.
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Despite hardship, she has cultivated strength, resilience, and joy.
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Exploring Resilience and New Possibilities
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Annie’s strength comes from life experiences, including time in Nepal and commitment to justice.
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Emphasis placed on love, connection, and alternative paths to fulfillment.
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Discussion of “third options” when direct goals feel unreachable.
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Cloe Madanes’ Use of Stories and Metaphors
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Uses metaphor and storytelling to trigger emotional insights in therapy.
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Shares a story about Evita to illustrate personal transformation and leadership.
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Emphasizes stories as tools to help clients access deeper meaning and motivation.
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Therapeutic Value of Storytelling
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Stories should be mutual, relevant, and strategically used—not random or self-focused.
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Clients often relate more to shared or metaphorical stories than to therapist anecdotes.
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Stories are remembered more than lectures and can impact clients decades later.
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Even misremembered stories hold emotional weight and transformative potential.
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Personal Vulnerability and Story Use in Therapy
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Sharing personal challenges (e.g., loss, grief) can create connection and authenticity.
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In small communities, personal transparency is often unavoidable but valuable.
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Being human and open in therapy enhances the therapeutic bond.
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Humanistic and Relational Emphasis
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Storytelling is a humanizing tool that promotes emotional healing and relatability.
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Clients value therapists who are emotionally present and real.
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Attendees reflect on the impact of a storytelling approach in comparison to more clinical ones.
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Closing Reflections
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Cloe expresses appreciation for the therapeutic community and emphasizes connection.
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Storytelling is presented as a foundational human trait—therapists are encouraged to use it to build meaning, healing, and transformation.
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