Description:
Educational Objectives:
*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*
Outline:
Case Introduction
Session on strategic therapy with Cloe Madanes.
Case presented by Neil Schiff (therapist/supervisor) involves a 17-year-old girl referred by the court for stealing $2,500.
Background: history of suicide attempts, poor school performance, learning difficulties.
Family includes older brother in college, younger sister in school, and parents with health issues.
Initial Impressions and Family Dynamics
Therapist adjusts his approach after initial interview and consulting with a behind-the-mirror observer.
Girl appears generous and social but may be exploited.
She feels jealous of her siblings and overwhelmed by peer and family pressure.
Girl's Self-Image and Parental Conflict
Girl admits to stealing from many people and names school, jealousy, and theft as her main issues.
Therapist considers whether she’s more rebellious teen or wounded child.
Mother is angry and exhausted; father tries to maintain school contact.
Parental Frustrations and Family Breakdown
Parents describe past punishments and even attempts to place daughter in foster care.
Mother expresses a desire to leave due to stress.
Therapist stresses the importance of the family staying intact and supporting the daughter.
Therapeutic Intervention
Therapist addresses girl’s self-destructive behavior and repositions her as central to family function.
Asks parents to commit to staying together.
Suggests girl take a break from household duties while siblings take on more responsibility.
Sibling Involvement
Brother and sister asked to support each other and help at home.
Therapist encourages parents to notice and appreciate the siblings’ contributions.
Emphasizes unified family effort to support the struggling daughter.
Conclusion and Family Strategy
Family agrees to new structure where siblings rotate being the “life ruiner” to deflect parental stress.
Focus shifts to restoring balance and happiness in the home.
Family commits to working together as a team going forward.
Cloé Madanes, HDL, LIC, is a world-renowned innovator and teacher of family and strategic therapy and one of the originators of the strategic approach to family therapy. She has authored seven books that are classics in the field: Strategic Family Therapy; Behind the One-Way Mirror; Sex, Love and Violence; The Violence of Men; The Secret Meaning of Money; The Therapist as Humanist, Social Activist and Systemic Thinker; and Relationship Breakthrough. She has presented her work at professional conferences all over the world and has given keynote addresses for The Evolution of Psychotherapy Conference, the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapy; the National Association of Social Workers, The Erickson Foundation, the California Psychological Association and many other national and international conferences. Madanes has won several awards for distinguished contribution to psychology and has counseled outstanding individuals from all walks of life.