EP13 Workshop 19 - It Takes One to Tango: Doing Couples Therapy with Individuals - Michele Weiner-Davis, MSW, LCSW

Description: This session explores how therapists can effectively work with just one partner in couples therapy. Drawing on solution-focused methods, the presentation offers tools for setting action-based goals, avoiding blame, and restoring connection. The “last resort technique” is introduced as a powerful option when a partner wants out, helping clients shift patterns, reclaim agency, and create space for change.

Syllabus Description: That only one partner is willing to seek relationship therapy should not deter therapists, since there is much that can be accomplished. In fact, there are occasions when working with only one partner is preferable. This workshop will explore these situations and offer therapists a conceptual framework for conducting relationship-oriented sessions with one partner present.

Educational Objectives:

1. Describe how seeing couples with divergent goals conjointly can be detrimental.
2. Discuss how to ascertain the absent partners’ views, feelings and goals for the relationship.
3. Discuss how to motivate the client to take responsibility for change in light of his/her partners’ lack of participation.

*Sessions may be edited for content and to preserve confidentiality*