CC25 Workshop 10 - Unlocking Individual Transformation: The Power of Solo Sessions in Couples Therapy - Lilian Borges, MA, LPC

In couples therapy, it’s not uncommon for therapists to find that one partner may need to explore their personal issues separately to facilitate healing within the relationship. Referrals for individual work can sometimes feel complicated, but when used strategically, they can be a powerful tool for enhancing the couple’s therapy journey. This workshop dives into the art of working with a partner individually while maintaining a focus on their relationship dynamics. We’ll explore the attachment framework to help clients understand their attachment styles, reduce defenses, and build empathy for their partner’s needs. Together, we’ll discuss why and when individual therapy is appropriate, how to ensure it aligns with couples therapy, and how to handle the potential challenges and ethical considerations that come with individual sessions. Whether you’re new to referring or looking to refine your approach, this workshop will provide a roadmap for successfully navigating the individual therapy aspect of couples work.

This workshop will blend case examples, practical strategies, and ethical guidelines, equipping you with the confidence and clarity needed to make informed decisions about referring a partner for individual work.

1. Identify the pros and cons of referring a partner to individual therapy within the context of couples counseling.
2. Name at least two key reasons for referring a partner to work individually on relationship issues.
3. Understand the most critical mistake to avoid when conducting individual sessions with a partner in the context of couples therapy.