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Introduction and Panel Structure
Panel on “The Person of the Therapist” features John Norcross, Bill O’Hanlon, and Michele Weiner-Davis (Ken Hardy absent).
Format includes opening remarks from each speaker followed by discussion.
Why the Therapist Matters
Norcross stresses therapist’s personal qualities significantly impact outcomes—more than specific techniques in some cases.
Therapist effects account for 5–9% of therapy success.
Argues against viewing therapists as interchangeable; calls for more focus in research and training.
Key Therapist Qualities
Top five attributes: presence, empathy, honesty, love, and responsiveness.
Advocates for stronger self-care, training, and supervision.
Emphasizes development of the person—not just technical skill.
Bill O’Hanlon’s View on Motivation
Therapists often drawn to the field by personal pain or passion (“bliss, blessed, pissed, dissed”).
Shares his own journey and influence of Milton Erickson.
Passion and connection are key to sustaining a therapeutic career.
Michele Weiner-Davis’s Personal Path
Inspired by Erickson and personal family history (mother’s divorce).
Sees therapy as deeply relational; values self-disclosure and vulnerability.
Believes therapists must work on themselves and their own relationships.
Theory vs. Self in Practice
New therapist asks about integrating personal style with theoretical orientation.
Norcross recommends starting grounded in one or two models, then branching out.
O’Hanlon and Weiner-Davis support an eclectic, integrative approach.
Licensure and Personal Growth
Concern raised about lack of personal development in licensure.
Panel agrees: current systems overlook therapist maturity and formation.
Suggests personal development plans including therapy and self-reflection.
Empathy and Client-Centered Practice
Passion for understanding clients and active listening are vital.
Therapists should do less talking and more listening.
Emphasis on tailoring therapy to what clients want.
Closing Reflections
Panelists stress that who the therapist is matters deeply.
Qualities like empathy, passion, and continual growth are essential.
Final takeaway: therapist development is central to client success.
John C. Norcross, PhD, is an eminent professor, psychologist, and specialist in psychotherapy, behavior change, and self-help.He is Distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of Scranton and Adjunct Professor of Psychiatry at SUNY Upstate Medical University.[3] He also maintains a part-time practice of clinical psychology in Scranton, Pennsylvania.
Bill O'Hanlon, MS, has written over 30 books, appeared on Oprah with his book Do One Thing Different, and has been a top-rated presenter at psychotherapy conferences all over the world. He was a student of the late Milton H. Erickson and created Solution-Oriented Therapy and Possibility Therapy.
Michele Weiner-Davis, LCSW is the Founder of The Divorce Busting Center in Boulder, Colorado. She is a popular TEDx speaker and the author of eight books including, Healing From Infidelity, and the bestselling Divorce Busting and The Sex-Starved Marriage. She is the recipient of several prestigious awards including the Outstanding Contribution to Marriage and Family Therapy Award from AAMFT.