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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Attachment | Couples Therapy | Developmental Therapy Model | Differentiation
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:19:52
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- Learn how attachment, differentiation, and neuroscience intersect to help couples overcome communication barriers, manage conflicts, and grow together. Discover practical techniques like the "ouch" method to de-escalate tensions and support partners in developing deeper understanding and authentic connection.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Love | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:55:39
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- This session presents a practical approach to Relational Life Therapy™, focusing on the interplay between grandiosity and shame, and the importance of addressing both indulgence and deficiency. It introduces the concepts of “latent” and “blatant” partners, emphasizing leverage, empowerment, and therapist transparency. Strategies include setting safe conditions for therapy, managing untreated disorders, calling forth the functional adult, and fostering relational joy over mere gratification.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Conflict | Relational Life Therapy Model (RLT) | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Terry Real, LICSW
- Duration:
- 1:52:50
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- The reason why most couples' characteristic fights never get resolved is because in our most heated moments, we stop fighting with each other. Core negative images (CNIs) start fighting and the two real partners get lost. This workshop teaches participants how to help partners identify, make explicit, accept, and ultimately work with one another's core negative images. As partners are taught to utilize each other's CNIs, rather than fight them, all sorts of creative and deliberating possibilities emerge.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Neuroscience | Research
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Pat Love, EdD
- Duration:
- 1:22:34
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- Current research from the field of neurophysiology confirms the fact that permanent change involves treating the system as well as the symptom. Come learn a simple, yet impactful way to help couples break old patterns by forming new ones. Lecture, demonstration, video and experiential exercise will be used.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Forgiveness | Couples Therapy | Pain and Healing
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, ABPP
- Duration:
- 2:00:49
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 01, 2009
- Short Description:
- This workshop offers a clear, empowering alternative to forgiveness when an offender cannot or will not make amends. Participants learn a structured model of **acceptance**, a self-healing process that helps people release obsession, understand the offender’s behavior without excusing it, protect their own dignity, and move forward without living in resentment. Through stories, clinical examples, and ten practical steps, the session shows how acceptance restores agency, reduces self-blame, and creates the option of reconciliation only when it is safe and genuinely earned.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Intimacy | Avoidant
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Ellyn Bader, PhD
- Duration:
- 1:23:01
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- A comprehensive workshop exploring intimacy avoidance in couples, revealing therapeutic strategies to help partners overcome fear of vulnerability, challenge core beliefs, and develop deeper emotional connections through authentic communication and courageous self-exposure.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Trauma | Healing
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Janis Abrahms Spring, PhD, ABPP
- Duration:
- 1:39:23
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- This workshop breaks down what actually happens to a couple in the aftermath of an affair, giving therapists a detailed map of the hurt partner’s shock, hyperarousal, numbness and cascade of psychological losses. It contrasts these reactions with the unfaithful partner’s relief, confusion and impatience, then shows how to help both partners speak honestly, manage secrets, and make grounded decisions about staying together. Participants also learn how trust is slowly rebuilt through steady presence, transparent repair and the unfaithful partner’s willingness to initiate conversations about the injury.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Sex and Sexuality | Intimacy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:35:22
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- The story of intimacy and sexuality in committed modern couples is one that often tells of dwindling desire and includes a long list of sexual alibis, claiming to explain the inescapable weakening of erotic connection. The absence of fantasy, the proliferation of pornography and affairs, as well as a lack of understanding of the nature of erotic desire all contribute to the depression, loneliness and despair. In this workshop we will probe the intricacies of love and desire. Through case examples and video vignettes, Ms. Perel will introduce innovative strategies for partners to take emotional risks when negotiating their dual needs for connection and autonomy, predictability and passion. This model applies to young, old, married and not, heterosexual and same sex couples.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
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- Not yet rated
- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Couples Therapy | Strategic Therapy
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009 | Pioneers in Couples and Family Therapy
- Faculty:
- Cloe Madanes, HDL, LIC
- Duration:
- 1:35:24
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- Creative, structured strategies for strengthening couples’ relationships. Topics include resolving parent-child enmeshment, addressing marital loyalty conflicts, preventing domestic violence through financial contracts and family involvement, and using rituals to reset dynamics. Techniques like humor, scheduled communication, and presence-building exercises help rekindle intimacy, reduce conflict, and support long-term connection.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price
- Average Rating:
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- Topic Areas:
- Workshops | Affairs | Couples Therapy | Infidelity | Intimacy | Marriage | Sex and Sexuality
- Categories:
- Couples Conference | Couples Conference 2009
- Faculty:
- Esther Perel, MA, LMFT
- Duration:
- 1:28:56
- Format:
- Audio Only
- Original Program Date:
- May 02, 2009
- Short Description:
- No other aspect in the lives of couples, today as well as yesterday, generates more fascination, gossip and fear as infidelity. In our society, sexual infidelity is mostly seen as a symptom of a relationship gone awry. The revelation of an affair can trigger a crisis that shakes the very foundation of trust and connection in the couple. The purpose of this workshop is to present a multi-cultural, non-judgmental perspective to probe the meanings of affairs, rethink fidelity, and address the complexities of marriage, sex, intimacy, and monogamy. We will look at the value and the price of honesty and truth telling, and explore the circuitous ways affairs aim to stabilize a marriage and prevent the dissolution of the family.
- Price:
- $15.00 - Base Price